What ifs and should haves

Often they are the ones who howls , whistles and are titled "mischievous" in any classroom...Every school or college student will have events  piled in their minds , the crazy deeds of these set of restless pupil in any class...teachers call them "backbenchers"...They are the ones who are adversely affected with the killer looks of those so called intelligent ones in the front bench..but I would say these are the ones who will hold and lend their loving hands when you are in distress..be them seated at the back. ..irritate with those pitchless and senseless songs but somewhere, somehow they become the heroes , they are in a way! Because they hold a heart inside...They don't care about the lectures but they do cry when that teacher whom they loved so much bid adieu from the stream..They won't compare your marks with theirs..everytime it's not because they can't score ..its because their minds are broad enough to handle if tests are tough and ma

If you ask me to select the best among my school teachers and college teachers, I would obviously select my college faculty ...if you ask me to choose the best among school management system or college management system, I would definitely select college system as the best...if u ask me to fill the gap of my favourite teacher, I would pen down the name of my college department head... And that’s my personal likes...I would say I am one among those fortunate students who have been lucky enough to taste the joy of education and learning...I am happy with the college ,I love my teachers.....But  this “YOU” is haunting me.....And so I am............... Ashamed to be the part of this shameless crowd....And when I say that I do mean “shameless crowd”...But it’s just YOU and YOUR supporters in this shameless crowd... Just stop calling me”Oye South Indian” when you know what my name is...just stop giving that upsetting stares to my friends who are foreigners so that they can stay comfo

Treading on the streets of my place there is a lot to watch...And I can beautifully elaborate the beauty that India is known and claims to have...Nature has by itself crowned these places with her beauty...I could see my neighbour’s garden so adoring and amorous...I admired the nearby villas for its scenic beauty that allures people towards it...  But what very lately I understood is that the sense one applies to his individual beautifying and the attitude that one shows towards his or her compounds is different when it comes to things as a whole... My gardens are clean not the public roads..Why??Why because it’s my “garden” and the road is everyone’s...that’s where it fails to make people understand that as a dustbin at your home is to dump wastes while the one on the public place too is for the same...we close the water pipe tight at home...Because when water just flows out of the tanks, we are charged for it..But on the public places we are alright even with wasting water.

During my schooldays there were these friends of mine who fought for my lunch box...At times I didn’t even get to taste the dishes my mom made...Often it was grabbed by my mischievous set of friends...if its omelette in it..easy for them to tear.....chicken means easier to choose the best piece...And if its beef..then they make sure they clean every corner of the box and return it on time... It was the best jovial time for us when guys from our class go for shabarimala pilgrimage...We eagerly waited for them to come back..Not because we yearn to see them soon...It’s the love for that “aravana paaayasam” (temple offering)..That tempting sweet dish. That they bring for us make them our favourite... And celebrations were another exciting times...when we draw the plan of the party: it’s from “classic decorations, dj party to dinner”    ...While when the day comes, due to short of money we often ends up hanging two- three balloons...and many at times our teachers were against that

Today...That is 13 th of October was quite a casual day for me...May be a day that was little more thought provoking than usual...I often do not get into discussions in my classes in college .it’s not because I am ignorant towards the issues that are discussed ..Its just that I never felt I could hear sensible comments ,be it in support ,be it  against... from my class...It’s kind of ....say: if the topic is on women empowerment..What goes on in my class is a boys v/s girls session...so I am like...”it’s better I talk less here”...and I always talk less there...I am on definite silence... But questions often leave me restless...And today in my morning lecture my teacher raised a question...he asked “should prostitution be  legalized ??”...and then answers  popped up...one was like “it should be legalized because it is where women’s power is portrayed in the true spirit”....many  similar answers about the power of women in different languages came up...I wanted to get up and tell t